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Am I really 'suay' ? All my maids cannot last > 5 mths....

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ay33
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Am I really 'suay' ? All my maids cannot last > 5 mths....

Post by ay33 » Fri Feb 22, 2019 8:19 am

hi everyone, juz want to vent out some frustration...i'm a full time wrkg mum, i chg 6 maids in 15 mths, tried indon, filipino but the longest 1 only stayed with us for 5 mths ! All of them cannot or not willing to take instruction & insist to do things their own way. Some due to fault biodata (ie less tahn 23 yrs old & childish). Some like to talk back or black face. & some are really forgot to bring their brain here to wrk, either always absent minded (blur all the time, break things in the hse almost everyday), or, u remind them 1000 times, they still cannot flw. Juz wondering am i really tat bad luck, every time cannot select a gd maid despite chg a few agt... very stress...feel like fighting at the battle field all the time..rushing fm wrk, rushing to tk dinner/shower, making bb to sleep...Smtimes i'm wondering whether i'm a monster after scolding the maid & I start to hate myself for losing the cool. Does anyone out there who manage to get a good helper & can u pls share with me yr secret how to live harmony/communicate wif yr helper ? Pls advc, many tahnks !

grace
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Re: Am I really 'suay' ? All my maids cannot last > 5 mths....

Post by grace » Mon Feb 25, 2019 3:47 am

I think problems lies with you...Time to do some soul searching

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